SnipSnapSnute rocks 
I played around with MediaWiki but it didn't really suit my needs. I found it very specialised to the structure of an online pedia.
SnipSnap is perfect for more flexible and personal use. I was lookng for something that combined wiki and blog, and am a java programmer so this was just perfect.
It will be interesting if
Scarab (Amazingly flexible Issue Tracking webapp)
JAlbum (Organise and publish directories of photos)
Gramps (Build family trees)
can be embedded and/or integrated in somehow. Maybe deploying in JBoss will be beneficial also (just alittle scared about RAM usage).